In their latest book, noted sexperts Steve and Vera Bodansky show readers how to take their sexual pleasure to the max by becoming instantly orgasmic. In the first part of the book, they describe the concept of instant orgasm and explain why humankind’s natural ability to experience ecstasy has been stifled through cultural brainwashing. They then present specific techniques for becoming instantly orgasmic by using a “Ground Hog” approach: starting and stopping over and over again, each time with additional knowledge gained until the concept is totally integrated into actual sensation and feelings. A chapter on pleasurable peaking describes the technique in more detail than ever before, with added emphasis on each peak starting with a first stroke mentality. The authors also delve into the reasons why some people resist pleasure and offer ways to handle those resistances, allowing anyone to become a fully sensual beings.
Product Details
ISBN-13: 9780897935081
Media Type: Paperback
Publisher: Turner Publishing Company
Publication Date: 05-28-2008
Pages: 228
Product Dimensions: 5.90(w) x 8.90(h) x 0.60(d)
Series: Positively Sexual
Table of Contents
Table of Contents
List of Illustrations ix Acknowledgments x Some Definitions to Know Up Front xi Introduction 1 How This Book Works 2 "No Time" and Other Excuses 4 Pleasure Now 5 Opening Your Mind 8 Give Your Hands a Hand 10 Is Instant Orgasm an Improvement? 10 How Is Instant Orgasm Different from Extended Massive Orgasm? 12 Language and Orgasm 13 New Thinking 14 Women and Men Differ in Response 17 The Old Kind of Orgasm 18 First Step 20 Check It Out for Yourself 21 Another Difference Between Women and Men 22 Self-Pleasure 24 Receptivity 25 Focusing Your Attention 26 Ways of Touching Yourself 27 More Exercises 38 Masturbation and Connections 41 Once You've Built a Connection 47 Pleasure Training 49 Inheriting Information 50 Training Your Partner to Give You Pleasure 52 Training Your Partner to Receive Pleasure 55 Putting the Training Together: Receiver and Giver 59 Requests, Suggestions, Commands 60 More Instant-Orgasm Training 61 Talking while Pleasuring a Man 63 Asking for What You Want 64 Connecting the Brain to the Genitals 65 Partnered Pleasure 67 Pleasuring a Partner: Some Basics 68 More on the Importance of Acknowledgment 69 Addressing a Negative Occurrence 71 Dealing with the Verbally Challenged 72 Feel the Heat 72 Point-and-Feel Orgasm 73 Performance Anxiety 74 One Stroke at a Time 75 Graduating to More Strokes 75 The Importance of Confidence 76 Noticing and Appreciating Her 77 Time to Touch 78 Handling Resistances: Enemies of Turn-On 79 Integrity 80 Getting into Agreement 81 A Tangent? 82 Reasserting Control 83 The Role of Chemistry 83 Hand Placement (on a Woman's Body) 85 More Signs of Resistance 86 A Variety of Pleasurable Touches 91 Pulling, Stretching, and Applying Pressure 92 Exposing Her Clitoris 93 Pressure on the Lower Abdomen 95 Pressure on Her Entire Vulva 95 Squeezing His Penis 97 More Ways to Touch a Woman 99 Lubrication 100 Lubricating a Man 103 Touchdown 104 Retracting the Hood 104 Stroking the Lower Clitoris 107 Placement of Your Second Hand 107 Advanced Tips for Creating Orgasms 109 Control and Confidence 110 Giving Orgasmic Pleasure to an Untrained Woman 111 The Position 113 Challenges 115 Touching 116 Finding the Right Pressure 118 Crotch Diving 120 Instant-Orgasm Training 120 Touching a Trained Woman 121 Ready, Set, Clitoris 123 The First Peak 124 Different Strokes 124 More Positions 125 Fun or Work? 127 The Surround Stroke 127 The Pleasure of Peaking 130 Slowing Down and Taking Breaks 131 Specific Frames 133 Are You Peaking? 135 Extending the Peak by Talking 136 Attention Spans 137 No Feeling 138 Ways of Peaking 139 First-Stroke Mentality 141 Between Peaks 141 Peaking by Changing the Stroke 142 Peaking and Control 142 Know When to Break the Rules 143 Training Peaks 144 Peaking Before Ejaculation 145 Go Peak Yourself 147 Closing Words 149 Choose Pleasure 150 Frequently Asked Questions 153 Bibliography 172 Index 174