› Whole Lesbian Sex Book: A Passionate Guide for All of Us / Edition 2
The Whole Lesbian Sex Book was the first-ever sex guide to offer information and encouragement for all women who desire women -- lesbian, bisexual, butch, femme, androgynous, and transgender. First published in 1999, it's been lauded for its thoroughness, enthusiastic tone, and creative, nonjudgmental approach to lesbian sex in all its rich variety. (Library Journal lamented, Why can't more heterosexual sex manuals be this good?) Now, five years later, sex educator Felice Newman has completely updated this classic guide. There is new information throughout, up-to-date research, fresh quotes from women who share their real-world experiences, a greatly expanded resource guide, new illustrations, and an entire new chapter on sex and partnership.
Topics include:
Where to find sex partners (and how to talk to your lovers about sex).
Discovering your desires and fantasies. How to have all the orgasms you desire--G-spot orgasms, multiple orgasms, extended orgasms, and ejaculation. Why communication is the most important erotic skill you can offer your partners. How masturbation can improve your sex life. Expert how-to information on cunnilingus, anal sex, vaginal fisting, and other favorite lesbian sex techniques. How to choose vibrators, dildos, and harnesses, and get the most out of your sex toys. And much more. Product Details ISBN-13: 9781573441995
Media Type: Paperback
Publisher: Start Publishing LLC
Publication Date: 10-27-2004
Pages: 400
Product Dimensions: 7.00(w) x 10.00(h) x 0.90(d)
Table of Contents
Table of Contents Illustrations x Preface to the Second Edition xi Introduction xv Chapter 1 Welcome 1 Chapter 2 Desire and Fantasy 3 What's Your Fetish? 5 Run Wild 7 Make Your Dreams Come True 8 Nurture Your Libido 10 Sex + Intimacy 14 Fantasy 14 Lesbian Porn 16 Chapter 3 Anatomy and Sexual Response 19 Anatomy 19 Sexual Response 27 Sexual Response over a Lifetime 30 Chapter 4 Orgasm 45 This Is Taking Too Long 46 If You Can't Have an Orgasm 47 Does Viagra Work for Women? 48 How Do You Come? 49 Getting Her Off 51 Multiple Orgasms 52 Tantra and Extended Orgasms 53 Ejaculation 55 Chapter 5 The Road to Heaven Leads to You 59 A Love/Hate Relationship 60 Take a Good Look 62 Appreciate Yourself 63 Take It In 63 Join the Crowd 63 Get Into Your Body 65 Somatic Healing 66 You Are What You Eat 68 Get a Pelvic Exam 68 Safer Sex, Please 69 Be Present 72 Life Changes 73 Chapter 6 Masturbation 75 What Will Masturbation Do for You? 75 The Masturbation Workshop Adventure 78 Teach Yourself Some New Tricks 81 How-To's of Masturbation 82 Solo Toys 83 Erotica and Fantasy 84 How-To's of Orgasm 84 Masturbating with a Partner 86 Chapter 7 Communication and Finding Sex Partners 89 Geography, Not Destiny 90 Talk Talk Talk 91 Tongue-Tied? 94 Who Are You Looking For? 95 Making Your Move 97 "No, Thank You" 98 Personal Ads in Newspapers and Magazines 99 Sex on the Internet 100 Play Safe 102 Sex Parties 102 Sex Talk Guidelines 103 Where to Learn More 104 Chapter 8 Sex and Partnership 107 Erotic Intimacy 108 What Kind of Sex Life Do You Want, Anyway? 109 What Kind of Partnership Do You Want? 117 You Make It Happen 121 What's Holding You Back? 130 Low Libido High Libido One Libido No Libido 132 What? No Sex? 137 Find Your Passion 139 Sexual Community 140 Keep It Happening 143 Chapter 9 Breast Play 147 Sensitivity 148 Teach Your Partner 149 How-To's of Breast Play 150 Nipple Piercings 151 Toys for Breast Play 152 Chapter 10 Clitoral Play 155 The Art of the Hand 156 Take a Tour 156 What If Your Hand Gets Tired? 158 Frottage 160 How-To's of Clitoral Stimulation 160 Genital Piercings 161 Genital Shaving 162 How-To's of Genital Shaving 163 Toys for Clitoral Play 164 Clitoral Play-Safely 166 Where to Learn More 166 Chapter 11 Oral Sex 167 Cunnilingus 169 Going Down on Your Girl 171 How-To's of Cunnilingus 172 Analingus 173 How-To's of Analingus 175 Positions for Oral Sex 176 What a Pain in the Neck! 176 (Detachable) Cocksucking 177 How to Suck (Detachable) Cock 180 Oral Sex-Safely 180 So What's a Girl to Do? 182 Chapter 12 Vaginal Penetration 185 Take a Tour 185 Finger-Fucking 187 Vaginal Fisting 189 Strap-On Dildos 193 How-To's of Vaginal Penetration 197 Positions for Vaginal Penetration 198 Toys for Vaginal Play 200 Vaginal Penetration-Safely 201 Where to Learn More 202 Chapter 13 Anal Penetration 205 Take a Tour 205 Basic Preparations 208 Finger-Fucking 211 Anal Fisting 213 Strap-On Dildos 215 How-To's of Anal Penetration 219 Positions for Anal Penetration 219 Toys for Anal Penetration 221 Anal Penetration-Safely 222 Where to Learn More 223 Chapter 14 Gender (Not Destiny) 225 What Is Gender? 226 Intersexuality 227 Transgender and Transsexual 228 Partners of Transgendered Women and Men 231 Sexual Orientation 234 Playing with the Boys 235 Butch/Femme 236 Chapter 15 Play Nice! (...or Else) 241 Ouch!!! (Yum...) 242 Negotiation 244 Creating the S/M Scene: Ritual and Theater 247 Pushing the Emotional Edges 248 Teach Yourself Some New Tricks 251 How Do You Know What You Want? 262 Toys for BDSM Play 264 That Sounds Dangerous! 265 BDSM Play-Safely 266 Where to Learn More 266 Chapter 16 Play Parties and Public Sex 269 Commercial Sex 269 Play Parties 271 How to Have Fun at a Sex Party 273 Where to Find Play Parties 274 Play Party Etiquette 275 How to Throw a Safer-Sex Party 275 Chapter 17 Sex Toys and Accoutrements 279 How to Choose Sex Toys 284 Got Your Lube? 296 Got Your Safer-Sex Supplies? 298 Does Latex Make You Itch? 298 How's Your Budget? 299 How to Care for Your Toys 300 Chapter 18 Safer Sex and Gynecological Health 303 Talking to Your Doctor About Sex 304 Gynecological Care 305 STDs and Gynecological Concerns 306 What If Your Partner Won't Use Barriers? 316 What If You Have an STD? 318 Chapter 19 Bibliography 321 Chapter 20 Resources 335 Notes 359 Index 367 About the Author 377
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