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Are You a Dirty, Nasty Slut? Or a Sexually Repressed Nightmare?

Regardless of your background or bedroom resume, someone or something has probably made you feel that way at some point. This was what Corinne Fisher and Krystyna Hutchinson discovered when they created the wildly popular Guys We Fucked: The Anti Slut-Shaming Podcast. What started as an outlet to interview—

You guessed it!—guys they'd fucked, quickly evolved into an enormous community of Fuckers around the world, and a place to share stories of kinks gone wild, trauma, assault, and the overall confusion among people who don't know what the fuck they are doing (in other words, everyone). 

F*CKED brings these raw, ridiculous, and serious conversations from the podcast to the page. It is a guide to love and sex for anyone — female, male, trans, or undecided—who is fed up with double standards and the stigma surrounding sexual beings. It is for anyone who has ever felt afraid to be their authentic self. Corinne and Krystyna won’t talk down to you or coddle you because you’re better than that. They won’t explain why he’s just not that into you, because it doesn’t fucking matter. This book will teach you how to deal with shit, brush your shoulder off, and move on. You'll also learn about:

  • Why shame is completely made up and how we can stop giving into it
  • Sexual exploration and how it sometimes ends in a trip to the ER
  • Stuff we should stop doing: Snooping, nitpicking our bodies, and faking orgasms
  • Asking your sexual partner uncomfortable questions
  • Masturbation, threesomes, porn, sex toys, butt stuff, and much, much more

Despite what Rom-Coms and magazines tell you, you can handle sexual exploration without the assistance of a man, a glass of rose, and a Xanax. More importantly, you’re fine all by yourself. This is the book Bridget Jones should’ve read instead of writing that shitty diary in the first place.

ISBN-13: 9780062666925

Media Type: Paperback

Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers

Publication Date: 01-29-2019

Pages: 272

Product Dimensions: 5.20(w) x 7.90(h) x 0.80(d)

Krystyna Hutchinson is a comedian, actress and writer with a BFA from Marymount Manhattan College. A regular in the New York City club circuit, she has performed in festivals and at sold-out clubs throughout the country. In addition to stand-up comedy, she has appeared in film, television, and Off-Broadway theater. She has trained with the Upright Citizens Brigade Theatre, The PIT, and Gary Austin Workshops. In her spare time, Krystyna likes to eat popcorn and sing Karaoke, her go-to song being 4 Non-Blondes' "What's Up?". Corinne Fisher is a writer, comedian, and actor who has performed at the Boston Comedy Festival, the Women in Comedy Festival, the Laughing Devil Festival, and the She-Devil Festival. She holds a BFA from the School of Visual Arts, has been trained in the Stanislavski method by Joie Lee, and is a graduate of the Upright Citizens Brigade Theatre's prestigious improvisation training program. She loves ice cream and the Spice Girls. Hutchinson and Fisher live in New York City.

Table of Contents

Introduction

Quoth the Boyfriend, "Novermore" 3

Corinne 7

Krystyna 14

This Book 19

But First, a Message from Our Listeners 21

Shame

Why We're Fucked: A Brief Introduction to Shame and Its Shitty, Shitty Origins 31

Historical Roots 34

Religion: Society's Guilty Non-Pleasure 36

Sources of Shame 42

Wine Me, Dine Me, Say Something About My Weight 52

Slut-Shaming 58

Fucks Given: A Lesson in Self-Love 66

Feeling Femasculated 71

UR So Gay 82

Private Parts

Vaginas: Pussies/Cooters/Love Tacos/Punani/Penis Fly Traps/Etc. 89

Penises: Dicks/Cocks/Bald-Headed Yogurt Slingers/Wangs/Weeners/Etc. 94

Nitpicking Our Bodies 97

Sexual Acts

Masturbation: A Tug as Old as Time 103

The Art of Jerking Off 106

Butt Stuff 110

Three-Ways 120

Period Sex 128

Sending Nudes 130

That's a Thing?! (Yep) 133

Rape Fantasies Are a Thing but Should Probably Be Renamed 135

Having Your Cake and Fucking It Too: A Feminist Perspective 138

There's a Law for That 140

Relationships

Keepin' It Cas'(ual) 145

One-Night Stands: When It's Good, It's Great-When It's Bad, It's Funny 147

The Importance of Communication 151

You [Don't] Complete Me 156

Thoughts on Monogamy: Or One Penis for the Rest of Your Life, Mwuah Ha, Ha, Ha!! 158

Relationshipping 162

Romance and Farting 167

Sometimes Your Sexual Partner Can Cross a Boundary During Sex and It Doesn't Necessarily Mean They're a Monster 171

Shit We Should Probably Stop Doing in Relationships 173

Breakups 189

Safe Sex and Serious Stuff

Sex Ed 201

Smooshmortion (Abortion) 205

When It Comes to Alcohol, Don't Be a Fucking Idiot 214

Consent: Slurred Lines 217

Conclusion: Final Thoughts 231

Abortion and Sexual Assault Resources 235

Acknowledgments 238

Index 242