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Understanding the Sociopath: Why antisocials, narcissists and psychopaths break the rules of life

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Understanding the Sociopath explains, in plain language, the 12% of the population who do not play by the same rules of life as the rest of us. These master manipulators, who have antisocial, narcissistic, borderline, histrionic or psychopathic personality disorders, seem normal at first, but their objective is to use and exploit us.

You may already be dealing with one of the 30 million adults in the United States who could be diagnosed with these serious personality disorders. If so, Understanding the Sociopath explains why they do what they do, why they will never change, and why you need to get them out of your life.

This book is a curated collection of blog articles from Lovefraud.com, the premier Internet website on how to recognize and recover from sociopaths. The content is presented in easy-to-read, bite-sized pieces; you won't be overwhelmed by technical jargon. Articles include:

- 10 translations of 'I love you' when spoken by a sociopath
- Sociopaths and double lives
- The truth about sex with sociopaths
- Why psychopaths don't change
- Letters to Lovefraud: I am a sociopath
- 10 things sociopaths want (besides money)
- Will the sociopath treat the next wife better?
- The sociopathic MO in three easy steps
- Why do psychopaths want to mess with your head?
- Do sociopaths know what they are?

Understanding the Sociopath includes dozens of stories and questions submitted by Lovefraud readers, with analysis and answers by Donna Andersen, author of Lovefraud.com. You'll see how sociopaths operate in real life, so if someone you know engages in destructive behavior, you'll be able to spot the warning signs.

Donna Andersen previously wrote, Red Flags of Love Fraud -- 10 signs you're dating a sociopath. Her first book, Love Fraud, tells her outrageous personal story of her marriage to a sociopathic con artist, and was awarded five stars by the Midwest Book Review. Donna is also co-author of a peer-reviewed scientific article in the Journal of Counseling and Development, and has presented her research to the Society for the Scientific Study of Psychopathy.

Sociopaths exist, and they aren't all serial killers. Understanding the Sociopath demystifies their behavior, so you can recognize them and protect yourself.

ISBN-13: 9781951347017

Media Type: Paperback

Publisher: Anderly Corp

Publication Date: 10-01-2019

Pages: 206

Product Dimensions: 5.50(w) x 8.50(h) x 0.44(d)

Series: Best of the Lovefraud Blog #1

Donna Andersen is author of Lovefraud.com, a website that teaches people to recognize and recover from sociopaths. She is also author of Red Flags of Love Fraud-10 signs you're dating a sociopath and the Red Flags of Love Fraud Workbook. Donna learned about sociopaths the hard way-by marrying one. She tells the whole outrageous story in her first book, Love Fraud-How marriage to a sociopath fulfilled my spiritual plan. The book was awarded five stars by the Midwest Book Review. Donna launched Lovefraud.com in 2005 and it averages 100,000 visits per month. Readers often say the website is the best source on the Internet for information about relationships with sociopaths. Many Lovefraud readers thank Donna for saving their lives. Donna founded Lovefraud Education and Recovery. The nonprofit offers online webinars to help professionals and the public spot, escape and recover from narcissists, antisocials, psychopaths and other manipulators. She is co-author of a scientific paper about therapy for victims of sociopaths, and has presented research to the Society for the Scientific Study of Psychopathy. Donna has appeared on television shows including Insight in Australia, ABC News 20/20, Who the Bleep Did I Marry?, My Life is a Lifetime Movie, Handsome Devils and The Ricki Lake Show. She has been interviewed for multiple radio shows, print articles and web posts. Donna graduated summa cum laude from the Syracuse University with degrees in magazine journalism and psychology. She was the original editor of Atlantic City Magazine, and then founded a boutique advertising agency, Donna Andersen Copywriting, in 1983. Her portfolio includes multimedia scriptwriting, freelance magazine articles, newsletters, web content and more. Donna is happily remarried, proving that recovery from betrayal is possible.

Table of Contents

Introduction

10 facts to help you explain your experience with a sociopath

Sociopaths range from sleazy to serial killer

The answer: Why psychopaths do what they do

5 reasons why the sociopath’s behavior in your relationship makes no sense

The eyes of a sociopath

Sociopaths keep changing their demands, keeping you in turmoil

10 translations of 'I love you,' when spoken by a sociopath

The truth about sex with sociopaths

Sociopathic deception: A plan or second nature?

How could such a wonderful young man turn into an evil sociopath?

'Dark core of personality' — what antisocials, psychopaths, sadists and other miscreants have in common

Sociopaths, information and power — what you need to know

11 Answers to questions about sociopaths

5 reasons why antisocials are great actors

Think of sociopaths as aliens — it may help you understand them

One trait or behavior does not make a sociopath – look for a pattern of traits and behaviors

LeSociopaths say they want love, but what they really want is supply

tters to Lovefraud: Female sociopath shares her experience of growing up with one and using what she learned

Will the sociopath treat the next wife better?

Naming the social predators among us

Sociopaths and double lives

10 reasons why sociopaths' lies seem so believable

Explaining evil – the psychopathic agenda

If a sociopath cries at movies, does it mean he has feelings?

9 reasons why sociopaths blow your mind

Why psychopaths don't change

7 reasons why sociopaths are hot in bed

Why do psychopaths want to mess with your head?

Sociopaths as chameleons — they become whatever they need to be for their latest scam

Do psychopaths know what they are?

Replacing a sociopath with a borderline personality disordered man

Sociopaths and sex: What you need to know

12 ways sociopaths say, 'It's not my fault' — what have you heard?

Sociopaths and love

Sociopaths change how we look at the world

Overcoming the hype to educate people about sociopaths

An open letter to lawyers who have clients involved with sociopaths

Letters to Lovefraud: I am a sociopath

10 things sociopaths want (besides money)

Hastening the demise of sociopaths

Sociopaths keep the charade going for a while

Sociopaths explain their own words

Why do psychopaths lie?

Letter from a sociopath

The Marriage Masks: Three types of sociopathic relationships

Do sociopaths know what they are?

How disordered motivation explains psychopathic behavior

The philosophy of a sociopath

The flaw in viewing sociopaths through normal eyes

Sociopaths and sex: neither straight nor gay

Most cheaters are amateurs; sociopaths are professionals

What is a sociopath feeling?

10 reasons why psychopaths get away with it

Why sociopaths cheat

Letter to Lovefraud: Is his goal to break me?

The sociopathic MO in three easy steps

With sociopaths, words and actions can both be lies

Psychopathy can run in families - a possible warning for you

Sociopaths change our beliefs about being human