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Grace in Dying: A Message of Hope, Comfort and Spiritual Transformation

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A moving illumination of the final transition of our lives.

ISBN-13: 9780062515650

Media Type: Paperback

Publisher: HarperCollins Publishers

Publication Date: 03-01-2000

Pages: 352

Product Dimensions: 5.31(w) x 8.00(h) x 0.79(d)

Kathleen Dowling Singh, Ph.D., has extensive training and experience in both transpersonal psychology and many spiritual traditions. She works with dying patients in a large hospice in southwest Florida and regularly addresses audiences on death, dying, and the hospice movement.

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Living, Dying, and Transformation


The shortest, the swiftest, and the surest way to plumb Truth is through a mortal leap into the Unknown.

— Henri Bergson

I am an ordinary person working with ordinary people dying ordinary deaths. The people I work with are neither saints nor sages. Although occasionally devout, they are not spiritual adepts. These are the people who have been in line with us at the supermarket or in the next lane at the traffic light; they are our parents, our friends, our spouses, our children, ourselves. The deaths I observed do not include the sudden, violent ones of attack or accident or the unexpected ones of a heart gone suddenly awry. They are the routinely prognosed deaths of terminal illness, the final fading away of a body riddled with cancer or stilled by a failing essential physiological system: ordinary people dying ordinary deaths.

What I have observed in these deaths, however, and what I have experienced is most certainly not ordinary; it is profound, transcendent, and extraordinary. By and large, people die in solemnity, peace, and transformed consciousness, radiating energy that can only be described as spiritual. Death, as no other moment we encounter in life, announces itself in resplendent silence. Death is so absolute that anyone's encounter with it is transforming. It provokes the strongest of feelings: terror, sadness, rage, utter fascination, and an interior acknowledgment, an intuitive recognition, of liberation.

William James, the American giant of Psychology and philosophy, once observed:

The whole drift of my education goes to persuade me that the world of our present consciousness is only one out of many worlds of consciousness that exist, and that those other worlds must contain experiences which have a meaning for our life also; and that although in the main these experiences and those of the world keep discrete, yet the two become continuous at certain points, and higher energies filter in. <

What People are Saying About This

Christiane Northrup

As a physician who has spent many years present with women at the moment of birth, I have often found myself moved to tears by the sacredness of this moment, when we emerge into physical life. As I read through the pages of The Grace in Dying, I found myself moved by the realization that the process of dying is the same in many ways as the process of giving birth, and that the same sacred energy that is so palpable in the delivery room will also be there for each of us at the moment of our death. There is great comfort in this remarkable book. -- Author of Women's Bodies, Women's Wisdom

Sukie Miller

A profound and rich contribution with new and needed information.

Michael Washburn

Kathleen Singh has written a stunningly powerful book. Her account of what happens to us as we are dying elucidates not only the spiritual character of the death process but also the underlying unity of life and death. Singh helps us understand what it means to die.

Dr. Bernie S. Siegel

Death is a wise but harsh teacher. It is easier to learn the lessons by educating yourself. Read and learn.

Kenneth Ring

The new Kübler-Ross has arrived, and her name is Kathleen Singh. In a stunning debut, she has written, quite simply, the most important book on the nature of dying since On Death and Dying. The Grace in Dying gives us new eyes with which to view death, and no one who reads Singh's work can come away from it without sharing her radiant vision. The book is a flat-out masterpiece. -- Author of Healing Toward Omega

Seymour Boorstein

Must reading! A very powerful and gentle antidote to the fear of dying both in ourselves and our loved ones.

Ken Wilber

A profound and moving--and much needed--book.

Larry Dossey

This splendid book is caressed by wisdom and compassion. It brings immense hope and meaning to life's final chapter.

Steven A. Schroeder

Kathleen Dowling Singh opens our eyes to the spiritual aspects of dying, as Sherwin Nuland and Elisabeth Kübler-Ross did for the physical and psychological. Her message...can offer reassurance throughout life.

Earl A. Grollman

Kathleen Dowling Singh writes powerfully with penetrating understanding and compelling insights that unlock the hearts of those who climb through the tortuous tragedy of dying to recovering, growth, and grace. (Rabbi Earl A. Grollman)