Clinical psychologist and author of The Defining Decade, Meg Jay takes us into the world of the supernormal: those who soar to unexpected heights after childhood adversity.
Whether it is the loss of a parent to death or divorce; bullying; alcoholism or drug abuse in the home; mental illness in a parent or a sibling; neglect; emotional, physical or sexual abuse; having a parent in jail; or growing up alongside domestic violence, nearly 75% of us experience adversity by the age of 20. But these experiences are often kept secret, as are our courageous battles to overcome them.
Drawing on nearly two decades of work with clients and students, Jay tells the tale of ordinary people made extraordinary by these all-too-common experiences, everyday superheroes who have made a life out of dodging bullets and leaping over obstacles, even as they hide in plain sight as doctors, artists, entrepreneurs, lawyers, parents, activists, teachers, students and readers. She gives a voice to the supernormals among us as they reveal not only "How do they do it?" but also "How does it feel?"
These powerful stories, and those of public figures from Andre Agassi to Jay Z, will show supernormals they are not alone but are, in fact, in good company.
Marvelously researched and compassionately written, this exceptional book narrates the continuing saga that is resilience as it challenges us to consider whether — and how — the good wins out in the end.
ISBN-13: 9781455559138
Media Type: Paperback
Publisher: Grand Central Publishing
Publication Date: 01-15-2019
Pages: 400
Product Dimensions: 5.20(w) x 7.90(h) x 1.20(d)
Meg Jay, PhD, is a clinical psychologist who specializes in adult development, and twentysomethings in particular. She is an assistant clinical professor at University of Virginia, and maintains a private practice in Charlottesville, Virginia. Dr. Jay earned a doctorate in clinical psychology, and in gender studies, from University of California, Berkeley.
Table of Contents
Author's Note xi
1 Supernormal 1
2 Origin Story 21
3 Secret 40
4 Fight 56
5 Flight 76
6 Vigilance 92
7 Superhuman 111
8 Orphan 130
9 Mask 149
10 Alien 165
11 Antihero 184
12 Reboot 201
13 Kryptonite 217
14 Secret Society 232
15 Gape 251
16 Avenger 268
17 The Power of Love 286
18 Never-Ending 302
Notes 305
Acknowledgments 383
About the Author 387
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