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Wired for Dating: How Understanding Neurobiology and Attachment Style Can Help You Find Your Ideal Mate

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In the age of online dating, finding a real connection can seem more daunting than ever! So, why not stack the odds of finding the right person in your favor? This book offers simple, proven-effective principles drawn from neuroscience and attachment theory to help you find the perfect mate.

Everybody wants someone to love and spend time with, and searching for your ideal partner is a natural and healthy human tendency. Just about everyone dates at some point in their lives, yet few really understand what they're doing or how to get the best results. In Wired for Dating, psychologist and relationship expert Stan Tatkin—author of Wired for Love—offers powerful tips based in neuroscience and attachment theory to help you find a compatible mate and go on to create a fabulous relationship.

Using real-life scenarios, you’ll learn key concepts about how people become attracted to potential partners, move toward or away from commitment, and the important role the brain and nervous system play in this process. Each chapter explores the scientific concepts of attachment theory, arousal regulation, and neuroscience. And with a little practice, you’ll learn to apply these exercises and practical techniques to your dating life.

If you’re ready to get serious (or not!) about dating, meet your match, and have more fun, this book will be your guide.

ISBN-13: 9781626253032

Media Type: Paperback

Publisher: New Harbinger Publications

Publication Date: 01-02-2016

Pages: 200

Product Dimensions: 6.00(w) x 8.90(h) x 0.60(d)

Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT, is a clinician, teacher, and developer of the Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT). He has a clinical practice in Calabasas, CA; where he has specialized for the last twenty years in working with couples and individuals who wish to be in relationships. He and his wife, Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin, developed the PACT Institute for the purpose of training other psychotherapists to use this method in their clinical work. Harville Hendrix, PhD, is co-creator of Imago relationship therapy, and is known internationally for his work with couples. Hendrix is also the author of the New York Times bestsellers Getting the Love You Want and Keeping the Love You Find.

Table of Contents

Foreword vii

Introduction 1

1 Before You Date 8

2 Seeing Clearly Through the Fog of Infatuation 28

3 Dealing with the Dating Jitters 47

4 Uncovering the Clues to a Good Match 62

5 Know Yourself, Know Your Partner 74

6 Anchors: Two Are Better than One 93

7 Islands: I Can Do It Myself 109

8 Waves: I Can't Do It without You 129

9 Do Your Nervous Systems Play Well? 149

10 Breaking Up 174

11 Making It Last 187

12 Dating Is Forever 200

Acknowlegments 203

References 204