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The Whole Lesbian Sex Book was the first-ever sex guide to offer information and encouragement for all women who desire women -- lesbian, bisexual, butch, femme, androgynous, and transgender. First published in 1999, it's been lauded for its thoroughness, enthusiastic tone, and creative, nonjudgmental approach to lesbian sex in all its rich variety. (Library Journal lamented, Why can't more heterosexual sex manuals be this good?) Now, five years later, sex educator Felice Newman has completely updated this classic guide. There is new information throughout, up-to-date research, fresh quotes from women who share their real-world experiences, a greatly expanded resource guide, new illustrations, and an entire new chapter on sex and partnership.

Topics include:
Where to find sex partners (and how to talk to your lovers about sex).
  • Discovering your desires and fantasies.
  • How to have all the orgasms you desire--G-spot orgasms, multiple orgasms, extended orgasms, and ejaculation.
  • Why communication is the most important erotic skill you can offer your partners.
  • How masturbation can improve your sex life.
  • Expert how-to information on cunnilingus, anal sex, vaginal fisting, and other favorite lesbian sex techniques.
  • How to choose vibrators, dildos, and harnesses, and get the most out of your sex toys.
  • And much more.
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    ISBN-13: 9781573441995

    Media Type: Paperback

    Publisher: Start Publishing LLC

    Publication Date: 10-27-2004

    Pages: 400

    Product Dimensions: 7.00(w) x 10.00(h) x 0.90(d)

    Table of Contents

    Illustrations x
    Preface to the Second Edition xi
    Introduction xv
    Chapter 1 Welcome 1
    Chapter 2 Desire and Fantasy 3
    What's Your Fetish? 5
    Run Wild 7
    Make Your Dreams Come True 8
    Nurture Your Libido 10
    Sex + Intimacy 14
    Fantasy 14
    Lesbian Porn 16
    Chapter 3 Anatomy and Sexual Response 19
    Anatomy 19
    Sexual Response 27
    Sexual Response over a Lifetime 30
    Chapter 4 Orgasm 45
    This Is Taking Too Long 46
    If You Can't Have an Orgasm 47
    Does Viagra Work for Women? 48
    How Do You Come? 49
    Getting Her Off 51
    Multiple Orgasms 52
    Tantra and Extended Orgasms 53
    Ejaculation 55
    Chapter 5 The Road to Heaven Leads to You 59
    A Love/Hate Relationship 60
    Take a Good Look 62
    Appreciate Yourself 63
    Take It In 63
    Join the Crowd 63
    Get Into Your Body 65
    Somatic Healing 66
    You Are What You Eat 68
    Get a Pelvic Exam 68
    Safer Sex, Please 69
    Be Present 72
    Life Changes 73
    Chapter 6 Masturbation 75
    What Will Masturbation Do for You? 75
    The Masturbation Workshop Adventure 78
    Teach Yourself Some New Tricks 81
    How-To's of Masturbation 82
    Solo Toys 83
    Erotica and Fantasy 84
    How-To's of Orgasm 84
    Masturbating with a Partner 86
    Chapter 7 Communication and Finding Sex Partners 89
    Geography, Not Destiny 90
    Talk Talk Talk 91
    Tongue-Tied? 94
    Who Are You Looking For? 95
    Making Your Move 97
    "No, Thank You" 98
    Personal Ads in Newspapers and Magazines 99
    Sex on the Internet 100
    Play Safe 102
    Sex Parties 102
    Sex Talk Guidelines 103
    Where to Learn More 104
    Chapter 8 Sex and Partnership 107
    Erotic Intimacy 108
    What Kind of Sex Life Do You Want, Anyway? 109
    What Kind of Partnership Do You Want? 117
    You Make It Happen 121
    What's Holding You Back? 130
    Low Libido High Libido One Libido No Libido 132
    What? No Sex? 137
    Find Your Passion 139
    Sexual Community 140
    Keep It Happening 143
    Chapter 9 Breast Play 147
    Sensitivity 148
    Teach Your Partner 149
    How-To's of Breast Play 150
    Nipple Piercings 151
    Toys for Breast Play 152
    Chapter 10 Clitoral Play 155
    The Art of the Hand 156
    Take a Tour 156
    What If Your Hand Gets Tired? 158
    Frottage 160
    How-To's of Clitoral Stimulation 160
    Genital Piercings 161
    Genital Shaving 162
    How-To's of Genital Shaving 163
    Toys for Clitoral Play 164
    Clitoral Play-Safely 166
    Where to Learn More 166
    Chapter 11 Oral Sex 167
    Cunnilingus 169
    Going Down on Your Girl 171
    How-To's of Cunnilingus 172
    Analingus 173
    How-To's of Analingus 175
    Positions for Oral Sex 176
    What a Pain in the Neck! 176
    (Detachable) Cocksucking 177
    How to Suck (Detachable) Cock 180
    Oral Sex-Safely 180
    So What's a Girl to Do? 182
    Chapter 12 Vaginal Penetration 185
    Take a Tour 185
    Finger-Fucking 187
    Vaginal Fisting 189
    Strap-On Dildos 193
    How-To's of Vaginal Penetration 197
    Positions for Vaginal Penetration 198
    Toys for Vaginal Play 200
    Vaginal Penetration-Safely 201
    Where to Learn More 202
    Chapter 13 Anal Penetration 205
    Take a Tour 205
    Basic Preparations 208
    Finger-Fucking 211
    Anal Fisting 213
    Strap-On Dildos 215
    How-To's of Anal Penetration 219
    Positions for Anal Penetration 219
    Toys for Anal Penetration 221
    Anal Penetration-Safely 222
    Where to Learn More 223
    Chapter 14 Gender (Not Destiny) 225
    What Is Gender? 226
    Intersexuality 227
    Transgender and Transsexual 228
    Partners of Transgendered Women and Men 231
    Sexual Orientation 234
    Playing with the Boys 235
    Butch/Femme 236
    Chapter 15 Play Nice! (...or Else) 241
    Ouch!!! (Yum...) 242
    Negotiation 244
    Creating the S/M Scene: Ritual and Theater 247
    Pushing the Emotional Edges 248
    Teach Yourself Some New Tricks 251
    How Do You Know What You Want? 262
    Toys for BDSM Play 264
    That Sounds Dangerous! 265
    BDSM Play-Safely 266
    Where to Learn More 266
    Chapter 16 Play Parties and Public Sex 269
    Commercial Sex 269
    Play Parties 271
    How to Have Fun at a Sex Party 273
    Where to Find Play Parties 274
    Play Party Etiquette 275
    How to Throw a Safer-Sex Party 275
    Chapter 17 Sex Toys and Accoutrements 279
    How to Choose Sex Toys 284
    Got Your Lube? 296
    Got Your Safer-Sex Supplies? 298
    Does Latex Make You Itch? 298
    How's Your Budget? 299
    How to Care for Your Toys 300
    Chapter 18 Safer Sex and Gynecological Health 303
    Talking to Your Doctor About Sex 304
    Gynecological Care 305
    STDs and Gynecological Concerns 306
    What If Your Partner Won't Use Barriers? 316
    What If You Have an STD? 318
    Chapter 19 Bibliography 321
    Chapter 20 Resources 335
    Notes 359
    Index 367
    About the Author 377